The Truly akhwat

True Akhwat
Filed under copied from achmad hidayat

One time, a son asks students to her teacher (Ustadz): Ya Ustadz, Tell me about the Truly akhwat ...

The Ustad smiled and answered ... : "the Truly akhwat ... is not looked outside just by her scarf, hijab or jilbab but it's also seen from the from her heart how he keeps down the eye from the bad think and sight (ghudhul Bashar), attitude, character, honor and purity of the Islamic ....
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Truly akhwat ... is not viewed from the softness of his voice, but from the outspoken he tells the truth to another peoples, relative and herself. the Truly akhwat also shown by how hw comunicate keep hijab and rules to another people that is not her mahram.

the Truly akhwat ... is not viewed just from the large number of friends around him, but from the attitude, relationship with her child, neighbour , close relatives, the jama'ah (muslim people), her brother sister and surrounding people especially her hausband.

Real sister or the Truly akhwat ...is not seen from how he was respected in the place he works, but how he is respected in the household ...

Real sister or the Truly akhwat ...is not seen from how he decorated and cook best and nicely cuisine, but how can he understand and know the tastes and eating husband and her child. And also the variationsof daily meals, she must be smart family financially manage cash flow, understand how to look attractive in the face of her husband and always feel pretty (qonaah) with all the gifts from the husband at the time and in the current field narrow.

Real sister or the Truly akhwat ...is not seen from her beautiful face, but from how he generous smile and cool temp when seen in front of her husband with all her heart.

Real sister or the Truly akhwat ... is not seen from the many brothers who tried berta'aruf to him, but of commitment to say that the real "No words" Love before marriage.

the Truly akhwat ...is not viewed from the degree black belt in the sport of fight, but from the temper he faced ins and outs of life ...

the Truly akhwat ... is not be seen from just the number he memorized the Koran, but from his understanding of what he read / memorized to resume practicing later in life he sehari2.
.... After that, the Student again asking ...

"Is there Akhwat that can meet such criteria, teacher Ustadz ?"
The Ustadz again smiled and said: "Akhwat like that is there, but rare.

Even if there is, he usually has a distinctive character, among others; Very loving Allah and His Messenger more than anything else, can not be separated from the world of da'wa (at least in the neighborhood where he lived), to live in congregation but not known 'ashobiyah, do not want to be known-unless requested / Pressed by jama'ah (community), a descendant of the righteous orang2 / shalihat, comes from an environment that is very well maintained, have a practice of worship daily, weekly and monthly on top of most people, life is simple but still interesting and useful for others, known as a neighbor who was kind, very filial to parents, very respectful to the older and very dear to a younger, very disciplined with her prayer, diligent shaum qiyamullail & Sunnah and practice of worship or can be hidden from the eyes of his best orang2 who knew him , diligent repair istighfarnya (taubatan NASHUHA), diligently praying for her elation

especially being in a state of difficulty or being inreal or hidden, diligent connect therelationtship[, Koran-study (especially those syar'i) / minimum present in the Majlis diligent science and listen, constantly adding / i improve their knowledge and convey all the knowledge that he knew after his first practice it, diligently read / memorize the Quran or hadith and her book a useful, smart / strong hin memorize quran, very selective about food / drink that he halal consumption , is very concerned about cleanliness and extremely disciplined about thaharah very, very awake from ikhtilat the hijab when we work together male and female, away from gossip, gossiping, verbal and all actions to maintain the continuity of the useless thing, ascetic, istiqomah, brave, not afraid /

The Ustad was promptly answered wisely to another male studen that finding a the Truly akhwat ...: "There is a the Truly akhwat ...
, if you yourselves like to get Akhwat Truely Shalihat as a life partner then you guys ... make your self become solih person at first FORMERLY your SELF! if you Hopefully this caracter of Akhwat because the shalihat is basically a shaalih also